Career Change Mentors: How to Find One and What to Ask for Maximum Impact

Understanding the Role of a Mentor in Career Change

So, what’s the big deal about mentors, and why are they the secret sauce in your career transformation recipe?

Think of a mentor as your career Yoda – they've been there, done that, and got the T-shirt. Their role? To shed light on the mysteries of new industries, help you level up your skills, and be the Gandalf to your Frodo in the professional realm.

But hey, it's not all about sage advice and wise words. A mentor can be your networking ninja, introducing you to the “who's who” in the industry and potentially opening doors that seemed locked.

They're not just a guide; they're your ally in conquering the career change challenge.

"Whether you want to 10x your results, get unstuck, or reinvent yourself, someone else has traveled a similar path and taken notes." (1) -Timothy Ferris

Remember, a mentor is not a magic wand that you wave to fix all your career conundrums. It's a two-way street. 

Preparing for a Career Mentor-Mentee Relationship

Before jumping into the mentorship pool, knowing your swimming style is crucial. In simpler terms, define your career goals. What's your dream job?

Consider these questions to narrow it down:

• Where do your interests, aspirations, and skill set intersect?
• Do you prefer working primarily independently or with others in a more team-oriented environment?
• Are you friendly and outgoing or more reserved and careful?
• Do you have a task-oriented mindset and eat, live, and breathe systems strategy?
• Are you people-oriented and interested in helping others achieve their goals?
• People-oriented and interested in selling a product or goal to others?
• What type of company do you want to work for? Consider values, work-life balance, size, location, and work environment.
• Where do you see yourself in a year? In five years?

Being clear about your destination makes it easier to find a mentor who's been on that road.

Once your goals are set, it's time to perfect your pitch. This isn't just about selling yourself; it's about articulating your ambitions and challenges. Think of it as a mini-advertisement of your career aspirations, ready to roll out when you bump into a potential mentor.

And here’s a pro tip: stay open-minded. Your ideal mentor might not be in your current field.

Sometimes, the best insights come from unexpected places. Consider signing up for a course with Unmudl and level up your skills or explore a new interest. You might even find your passion lies in another field. 

Don't put all your hopes in one industry; explore, and you might find yourself mind-blown.

Finding a Mentor

Finding a mentoring relationship is a worthy quest in the career world. Start by enhancing your network, both online and offline. One strategy is getting involved in groups related to your desired field.

• LinkedIn? Check.
• Industry events? Absolutely.
• Meetups? Pencil them in!
• Career Networking Groups? Try it out. Part of the point of these groups is mentorship!
• Professional Association? If you know your desired field, go for it!
• Your immediate network? Who better than people you know already? Friends, Family, and even Neighbors!
• Professors and teachers? Who else sees your worth better?

Let them all know about your job search and career transition!

Every connection is a potential mentor or a bridge to one. Don’t shy away from reaching out to former professors or professionals in different fields.

Diversity in perspectives can be a game-changer. So, join organizations unrelated to your potential field. Many organizations have hundreds of members you can get to know. Consider religious and non-profit organizations where members try to help each other and others.

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What Makes a Good Mentor?

Mentors are more than just seasoned professionals. They're a blend of a wise guide, an inspiring role model, and a supportive coach.

Here’s what sets them apart:

• Experience and Expertise: They have a wealth of knowledge and a track record of success in your field. And don't overlook recently retired or over 65+ individuals who may still have a toe in the water.
• Communication Skills: They can convey ideas clearly and listen effectively.
• Empathy and Understanding: They can relate to your struggles and provide tailored advice.
• Availability and Commitment: They're willing to invest time in your development and have a schedule that allows them to commit time to you.
• Honesty and Integrity: They provide candid feedback and uphold strong ethical standards.
• Inspiration and Motivation: They encourage you to push your boundaries and achieve your goals.
• Networking Ability: They can connect you with other professionals and opportunities.

In short, good mentors don’t just instruct; they inspire, challenge, and support you on your career journey.

Check out these quotes from mentors:

• "My job is not to be easy on people. My job is to take these great people we have and to push them and make them even better." — Steve Jobs​​
• “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” — Maya Angelou
• “The delicate balance of mentoring someone is not creating them in your own image, but giving them the opportunity to create themselves.” — Steven Spielberg​​
• "The mind is not a vessel that needs filling, but wood that needs igniting." — Plutarch​
• “Show me a successful individual and I’ll show you someone who had real positive influences in his or her life. I don’t care what you do for a living—if you do it well I’m sure there was someone cheering you on or showing the way. A mentor.” — Denzel Washington​​ (2)

Mentorship Relationships Make a Difference

• Martin Luther King Jr. was mentored by Benjamin E. Mays, who encouraged him to pursue his doctoral degree and helped him develop his leadership skills. (3)(4)
• Benjamin Graham, a successful investor and author, mentored Warren Buffett. (5)
• Maya Angelou, a renowned poet, mentored Oprah Winfrey. (6)(7)

Try Talking to Many Potential Mentors

When you spot a potential mentor, start with small talk. If a conversation crashes and burns, it's okay. It only means that the person is not your mentor.

“A mentor is someone who sees more talent and ability within you, than you see in yourself, and helps bring it out of you.” (8) ―Bob Proctor

Talking with many people will help you get a feel for the type of person you might enjoy as a mentor.

Get connected with as many people as possible in your desired field, and don't be afraid to ask for introductions. The more people you know, the more likely you'll find a mentor to help you achieve your goals. (9)

How to Connect When You Feel Unsure

Small talk helps people find issues they can connect on. So start there with each person. If you feel unsure about what to say, you can always do one of the following:

• Ask questions. (Ensure you listen to the answers and ask follow-up questions until you're ready to discuss something.)
• Make conversation about:

• An event you're at together
• A task you're working on at the same time or place
• A place you are at together
• The weather (if all else fails lol)

• If they've already given you insight into something they enjoy, ask questions to show interest.

Once you have their attention through small talk, move into career-related topics. You might ask, "Could I talk with you about a career-related issue?"

You might begin by talking about why you admire their path, and how you believe their guidance could fuel your journey. You might also share some of your own goals as the conversation progresses.

They may give you some advice on the spot. Or they may ask what you think. Either way, you may decide to ask them to meet up again.

Or you may find that they are not the type of person who would make a good mentor for you. If that's the case, keep pushing forward.